The Social-Engineer Podcast

Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.


In today’s episode, Dr. Abbie is being joined by Erin Gray. Erin is an internationally known actress, 70’s super model and now founder of ’Heroes for Hire’, a company representing celebrities for personal appearances worldwide. Erin went from being one of the original Sports Illustrated models, Breck Girls, Maxi Girl and the Bloomingdales spokesperson for ten years to being the lead actress in the feature film and TV series ‘Buck Rogers in the 25th Century’, quickly followed by NBC’s ‘Silver Spoons’ for 5 years. In addition, Erin has over 50 TV credits beginning at 17 with ‘Malibu U’, a musical variety show starring Ricky Nelson, to ‘Magnum PI’, ‘Law and Order’, ‘Hunter’, ‘Baywatch’, ‘Profiler’, etc. plus two dozen feature films such as ‘Six Pack’ with Kenny Rogers, ‘Friday the 13th: Jason Goes to Hell’ and ‘Dreams Awake’.


Erin is the recipient of eleven community service awards, including The Leadership Award by the County of LA, the 2002 Woman of the Year Award presented by the Los Angeles Commission for Women, and most recently two Lifetime Achievement Awards and best actress in a feature film at the Monaco Film Festival for her performance in ‘Dreams Awake’ and best actress in The 2020 Golden State Film Festival in ‘The Piano Teacher”. Erin is currently on the Board of Directors for the Innocent Lives Foundation, protecting women and children from human traffickers and pedophiles and bringing them to justice. [Nov 6, 2023]


00:00 - Intro

00:40 - Intro Links

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-          Managed Voice Phishing -

-          Managed Email Phishing -

-          Adversarial Simulations -

-          Social-Engineer channel on SLACK -

-          CLUTCH -

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03:26 - Erin Gray Intro

05:32 - The Topic of the Day: Mind-Body-Connect

08:42 - Smile Within

12:19 - It's All in the Mind

14:36 - Out of the Woods

18:37 - Standing Like a Model

20:01 - Emotional Contagion

21:43 - Finding Balance

25:41 - Maintaining Flexibility

29:34 - Seeing is Believing

31:17 - Self Trust

34:32 - The Gift of Integrity

37:46 - Integrity is Hard!

44:23 - More Than a Memory

46:24 - Where It Comes From

49:17 - Wrap Up & Outro




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